Gaslighting : recognize manipulative and emotionally abusive people-and break free / by Stephanie Moulton Sarkis, PhD.
"A mental health expert sheds light on "gaslighting"--the manipulative technique used by sociopaths, narcissists, and others--offering practical strategies to cope and break free. - He's the charmer -- the witty, confident, but overly controlling date. She's the woman on your team who always manages to take credit for your good work. He's the neighbor who swears you've been putting your garbage into his trash cans, the politician who can never admit to a mistake. Gaslighters are master controllers and manipulators, often challenging your very sense of reality. Whether it's a spouse, parent, coworker, or friend, gaslighters distort the truth -- by lying, withholding, triangulation, and more -- making their victims question their own reality and sanity. Dr. Stephanie Sarkis delves into this hidden manipulation technique, covering gaslighting in every life scenario, sharing: Why gaslighters seem so "normal" at first, Warning signs and examples, Gaslighter "red flags" on a first date, Practical strategies for coping, How to coparent with a gaslighter, How to protect yourself from a gaslighter at work, How to walk away and rebuild your life, With clear-eyed wisdom and empathy, Dr. Sarkis not only helps you determine if you are being victimized by a gaslighter -- she gives you the tools to break free and heal. "-- from publisher.
Record details
- ISBN: 9780738284668 (trade paperback) :
- ISBN: 0738284661
- Physical Description: viii, 261 pages ; 23 cm
- Edition: First edition.
- Publisher: New York : Da Capo Press, 2018.
- Copyright: ©2018.
Content descriptions
Bibliography, etc. Note: | Includes bibliographical references (pages 243-248) and index. |
Formatted Contents Note: | Is it me, or is it you making me think it is me? Portrait of a gaslighter -- Love-bombed, hoovered, devalued and discarded: gaslighting in intimate relationships -- Passionate, confident--and out for control: how to avoid falling for a gaslighter in the first place -- Saboteurs, harassers, off-loaders and thunder stealers: gaslighters in the workplace -- You, too: sexual harassment, violence, domestic abuse, and gaslighters -- Mad for power: gaslighters in politics, society, and social media -- Beware the man behind the curtain: false messiahs, extremist groups, closed communities, cults, and gaslighting -- The ones who really get under your skin: gaslighters in your family -- With frenemies like these: gaslighting in friendships -- Your ex, your kids, your ex's new spouse, your new spouse's ex: gaslighting in divorce and coparenting -- Who, me? what to do when you are the gaslighter -- Getting free: counselling and other ways to get help. |
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Subject: | Manipulative behavior. Psychological abuse. |
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